When you recognize that your child needs you — and you are valuable to them — you show up.You take parenting as a responsibility — not an extracurricular activity.When the mom asked him why he didn’t return the daughter’s phone calls, he replied: “I don’t have anything to say.” I gave her some ideas about taking the issue to family court, and managing both the daughter’s and her own expectations (stop trying to control him – you can’t).But the advice the mom told me that was most surprising and helpful was this: Be empathetic.But I see now that when he is not there for the kids, it is because forces bigger and darker than him are at play. Listen to my Like a Mother episode ‘If he doesn’t see his kids, don’t fuck him’: Related: What to tell your kid when their dad is not involved My kid’s dad isn’t involved and I don’t know what to say The real reason your ex doesn’t see the kids Close the pay gap? 50-50 visitation and no child support Should you date a guy who doesn’t see his kids?And those things prevent him from being the parent he wants desperately to be — and enjoy his children as much as he otherwise might. I’m working on that attitude as both a divorced parent and a child of divorce.
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